Check. Ask. Share.
Compare Notes.
She Knows Something is a private community where members can search existing Dating Checks, Ask The Girls, share firsthand information, and compare notes responsibly.
Apply
Complete your membership application and pay your annual membership fee.
Check Him
Search existing Dating Checks by name, age, location, and more.
Ask
Nothing came up? Ask The Girls if another member knows him.
Share
Know him? Open his Dating Check and share what you know.
Join The Community
Complete our membership application, provide payment for your annual membership, and agree to our Community Guidelines.
Your application will remain pending while our team reviews it.
Get Verified
As part of the approval process, we review membership applications to confirm that members meet our community requirements.
Once approved, you’ll receive access to the private community.
Check Him
Search the existing Dating Check database by name, approximate age, city, state, and other available filters.
If you find him, open his Dating Check to see approved information that has already been shared.
Each Dating Check keeps information about the same person organized in one place.
Can’t Find Him?
Ask The Girls.
Nothing came up? That doesn’t mean nobody knows him.
Ask The Girls if another member has firsthand experience, or start a new Dating Check.
Share What You Know
Found his Dating Check and know something? Share your experience.
We Review It
Submissions do not automatically become published information.
Our team reviews Dating Checks, contributions, inquiries, comments, and other submitted information.
Serious safety concerns follow a separate review process.
Compare Notes
When multiple members have relevant firsthand experiences with the same person, approved information can be organized within the same Dating Check.
Stay Updated
Save a Dating Check you want to revisit.
Members can receive a notification when new approved information is added to a saved Dating Check.
Log in to see what changed.
Protect The Community
Share firsthand information. Tell the truth. Respect privacy.
No doxxing. No harassment. No retaliation. No revenge posting. No knowingly false or misleading information.
